Upcycling on facebook live at save the children

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I’m upcycling again this Saturday. I’m pitching up for a couple of hours at another of my favourite local charity shops, Save the Children. This time, you can also join me on Facebook Live. Once again, I’ll have some upcycled pieces and some 2nd hand treasures with me and we’ll also be having an online rummage through the rails. I’ll have my sewing machine with me and share some tips for upcycling and what to look out for when shopping 2nd hand. Hopefully, I’ll pass on the joy of pre-loved clothes and inspire you to have a go at upcycling something.

A reminder of why I think 2nd hand has an important place in ethical fashion

For me, buying clothes 2nd hand and upcycling is part of an ethical fashion jigsaw, it’s about using what we have rather than buying more and it’s about expressing creativity. As a consumer, I want to dress with a clear conscience and as a fashion designer, I’m looking for a place in an industry whose scale and pace actually turn me off a bit.

The fashion industry is complex and involves long supply chains, there are people working in those chains that are not paid fairly, are not given protection if they are ill or vulnerable and they are often working in unsafe conditions. The environment is suffering too, over half of China’s rivers are polluted and cotton farming uses a huge proportion of the worlds chemical pest control. Precious resources are being used up, it takes 2,720litres of water to make one t-shirt (that’s how much we drink in 3 years)!!

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I appreciate that affordability is a factor but I think these issues are too important to overlook. And I do think that most of us have more clothes than we need, it’s estimated we have £30 billion pounds worth of underused clothes in our wardrobes. Buy more wisely and you buy less.

I love fashion … it’s fun, it’s creative and it’s the expression of me. I used to struggle with ever changing trends but I’ve even grown to enjoy them. They keep my wardrobe fresh and interesting. But I’m determined to have the wardrobe I want without costing a fortune or compromising my ethics. 

This blog is where I bring together the pieces of my ethical fashion jigsaw …

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  • wardrobe restyling – knowing what you have, using what you have and buying wisely – planning what you need before going shopping
  • knowing your own body – knowing what suits you means you can avoid impulse buys that you get home and don’t wear
  • I’m looking at brands and, when I do buy new, I’m trying to only use those I can trust. I’m looking at some ethical brands – this week I’m reviewing People Tree. I’m prepared to pay for quality staples and shoes because I wear them lots of times and I’m comfortable with the price per wear.
  • Then if I want something unique or on-trend, I shop second hand and upcycle.

The big impact of buying clothes 2nd hand is on reducing the amount of waste going to landfill or clothes being shipped to developing countries, where they might stifle home industries.

Last November, Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall’s  programme called War on Waste showed him stood at the top of a huge pile of 7 tons of clothes, 10 thousand garments and asked people how long they thought it took Britain to throw away that amount of clothes … some answers were way off and nobody was close to the real truth which is 10 minutes! The total is around 350,000 tons, going to landfill every year in the UK, where they slowly decompose releasing methane, a harmful greenhouse gas.

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Very few textiles can be recycled into new textiles, only 20% of textiles produced worldwide are recycled each year. H&M recently held a Recycle Week, they asked people to bring in old clothes for money off new ones. They led people to believe that they would be recycled but the technology and processes simply don’t exist for most fabrics. It was just more landfill and contribution to overseas, and a marketing ploy to get people to buy more. It was a really dangerous message and disappointing from H&M, who are generally regarded as one of the more aware high street stores. 

I’ve always bought clothes 2nd hand even before it was for ethical reasons. 

I grew up in the 80s .. my main aim when choosing an outfit was to look different from everyone else and the more creative the better. So I had my Mum and Dads handed down clothes, restyled them, upcycled them. I always raided my Mum’s jumble pile and saved a few items. I could experiment because they hadn’t cost anything so I wasn’t frightened of it going wrong and because I wasn’t frightened it usually worked out ok.

Because of where my relationship with clothes started, I developed a huge sentimentality about clothes, I truly believe I have a relationship with my clothes and I love wearing something that was my Mums or my Dads. It’s romantic but I love the idea of re-inventing a garment with a back story or re-loving something and giving it another life. I feel nothing when I put on a cheap t-shirt, it doesn’t spark joy as Marie Kondo asks.

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Then when I moved to London, I had access to Charity Shops in wealthy and trendy areas, I could pick up vintage and designer clothes that I could never afford to buy new. When I started studying fashion, drafting my own patterns and making more clothes from scratch I really started to appreciate the cut of a garment, the quality of fabric and the details that affect the style of a garment. So I notice where high street stores cut corners on quality and style.

So my plans for the event …. 

I truly believe that one man’s waste is another man’s treasure and there is no greater satisfaction than giving something discarded a new purpose. But how do I do it and what do I look for? I’ve been doing it for so long, I’ve developed a keen eye and experience has taught me what to look for. I don’t mind rummaging through the rails but I never expect it to be a quick task. Sometimes I find nothing but other times, I find treasures.

So the best way to tell you is to share with you some items I’ve bought over the years and tell you why I bought them. I’ll be doing this over the next few days here on my blog and also on social media. I’ll have some pieces with me on Saturday that I’ve already upcycled and some I haven’t yet done. I’m hoping for some volunteers to do the quality quiz. We can have a rummage of the rails together and you may even feel inspired to take something and have a go at upcycling yourself. You’ll be able to keep in touch via my 1134 Sewing Club on Facebook. You can check out my post “Secondhand and upcycling at Shaw Trust” to find out what we got up to at the last event.

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second hand clothes & upcycling at shaw trust

Diary of my day at the Shaw Trust, sharing the love of 2nd hand, upcycling and it’s place in my quest for a clear conscience way to dress.

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So, I pitched up at the Shaw Trust on Wantage Market Place on Saturday. I took along a few things so that I could share this crazy passion for 2nd hand clothes and upcycling.

My rail of reasons to shop 2nd hand … I took along some items from my own wardrobe, which illustrate a few reasons why I think buying 2nd hand is so great. Customers had a browse through my rail and I shared some thoughts on each of my reasons.

 

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I also took along some pieces I’ve bought to be upcycled, explained what took my eye when I bought them and what I plan to do with them.

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I did some sewing …. I was finishing the upcycle of this skirt I bought in Shaw Trust a couple of weeks ago, I’ll post a few more pics next week.

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I had a go a the Dr Noki t-shirt slashing technique ….. I discovered this technique at the Upcycle project in London and I’ve been itching to have a go. Hoping to post the finished project next week.

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There was even a quiz …… how to spot good quality fabric and well-made clothes.

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I thoroughly enjoyed my day at the Shaw Trust, I’ve posted a short video on my Facebook page and on the Wantage Summer Festival page. Spotted a potential project …. ??? crazy or cool, I’m not sure.

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I’m planning to venture into the new world of Facebook Live for the next event on 16th July. I’ll be at Save the Children from 11-1 for some more sewing and upcycling and tips on buying clothes 2nd hand.

 

I’m upcycling at the Shaw Trust on 2 July

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This Saturday, as part of the Wantage Summer Festival, I’m pitching up for a couple of hours in one of my favourite local charity shops, Shaw Trust. It’s a brilliant charity that helps disabled and disadvantaged people into employment and independent living and it’s where I buy quite a lot of 2nd hand clothes from.

On Saturday, I’m inviting people to drop in. I’ll have some pieces I’ve upcycled with me and some 2nd hand treasures I’ve bought. We can have a rummage of the rails together and I’ll share some tips for upcycling and what to look out for when shopping 2nd hand. Hopefully, I’ll pass on the joy of pre-loved clothes and inspire you to have a go at upcycling something.

I think 2nd hand has an important place in ethical fashion

For me, buying clothes 2nd hand and upcycling is part of an ethical fashion jigsaw, it’s about using what we have rather than buying more and it’s about expressing creativity. As a consumer, I want to dress with a clear conscience and as a fashion designer, I’m looking for a place in an industry whose scale and pace actually turn me off a bit.

The fashion industry is complex and involves long supply chains, there are people working in those chains that are not paid fairly, are not given protection if they are ill or vulnerable and they are often working in unsafe conditions. The environment is suffering too, over half of China’s rivers are polluted and cotton farming uses a huge proportion of the worlds chemical pest control. Precious resources are being used up, it takes 2,720litres of water to make one t-shirt (that’s how much we drink in 3 years)!!

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I appreciate that affordability is a factor but I think these issues are too important to overlook. And I do think that most of us have more clothes than we need, it’s estimated we have £30 billion pounds worth of underused clothes in our wardrobes.

I love fashion … it’s fun, it’s creative and it’s the expression of me. I used to struggle with ever changing trends but I’ve even grown to enjoy them. They keep my wardrobe fresh and interesting. But I’m determined to have the wardrobe I want without costing a fortune or compromising my ethics. 

This blog is where I bring together the pieces of my ethical fashion jigsaw …

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  • wardrobe restyling – knowing what you have, using what you have and buying wisely – planning what you need before going shopping
  • knowing your own body – knowing what suits you means you can avoid impulse buys that you get home and don’t wear
  • I’m looking at brands and, when I do buy new, I’m trying to only use those I can trust. I’m looking at some ethical brands. I’m prepared to pay for quality staples and shoes because I wear them lots of times and I’m comfortable with the price per wear.
  • Then if I want something unique or on-trend, I shop second hand and upcycle.

The big impact of buying clothes 2nd hand is on reducing the amount of waste going to landfill or clothes being shipped to developing countries, where they might stifle home industries.

Last November, Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall’s  programme called War on Waste showed him stood at the top of a huge pile of 7 tons of clothes, 10 thousand garments and asked people how long they thought it took Britain to throw away that amount of clothes … some answers were way off and nobody was close to the real truth which is 10 minutes! The total is around 350,000 tons, going to landfill every year in the UK, where they slowly decompose releasing methane, a harmful greenhouse gas.

recycle??

Very few textiles can be recycled into new textiles, only 20% of textiles produced worldwide are recycled each year. H&M recently held a Recycle Week, they asked people to bring in old clothes for money off new ones. They led people to believe that they would be recycled but the technology and processes simply don’t exist for most fabrics. It was just more landfill and contribution to overseas, and a marketing ploy to get people to buy more. It was a really dangerous message and disappointing from H&M, who are generally regarded as one of the more aware high street stores. 

I’ve always bought clothes 2nd hand even before it was for ethical reasons. 

I grew up in the 80s .. my main aim when choosing an outfit was to look different from everyone else and the more creative the better. So I had my Mum and Dads handed down clothes, restyled them, upcycled them. I always raided my Mum’s jumble pile and saved a few items. I could experiment because they hadn’t cost anything so I wasn’t frightened of it going wrong and because I wasn’t frightened it usually worked out ok.

Because of where my relationship with clothes started, I developed a huge sentimentality about clothes, I truly believe I have a relationship with my clothes and I love wearing something that was my Mums or my Dads. It’s romantic but I love the idea of re-inventing a garment with a back story or re-loving something and giving it another life. I feel nothing when I put on a cheap t-shirt, it doesn’t spark joy as Marie Kondo asks.

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Then when I moved to London, I had access to Charity Shops in wealthy and trendy areas, I could pick up vintage and designer clothes that I could never afford to buy new. When I started studying fashion, drafting my own patterns and making more clothes from scratch I really started to appreciate the cut of a garment, the quality of fabric and the details that affect the style of a garment. So I notice where high street stores cut corners on quality and style.

So my plans for the event …. 

I truly believe that one man’s waste is another man’s treasure and there is no greater satisfaction than giving something discarded a new purpose. But how do I do it and what do I look for? I’ve been doing it for so long, I’ve developed a keen eye and experience has taught me what to look for. I don’t mind rummaging through the rails but I never expect it to be a quick task. Sometimes I find nothing but other times, I find treasures.

So the best way to tell you is to bring along some items I’ve bought over the years and tell you why I bought them. Some I’ve already upcycled, some I’ve restyled, some I didn’t need to do anything with and some I haven’t yet done …. drop in and have a chat. We’ll also have a rummage of the rails together and you may even feel inspired to take something and have a go at upcycling yourself. You’ll be able to keep in touch via my 1134 Sewing Club on Facebook.

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upcycle: tie shirt and pencil skirt

Remember these items from Save the Children? …. I love the colour of the jacket but the style was rather serious and I wanted to make it into something more playful. The skirt is a supermarket skirt but the fabric was cool. I thought a straight skirt would show off the shine and I continued the playful theme with a frill. Not usually my kind of thing but I really enjoyed wearing it to our coffee and blogging event at the Wantage Summer festival.

So a few photos of how I got there ….

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Ta da!!

 

2 july: ethical fashion at The Shaw Trust

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Just two weeks to go until my first event at the Wantage Summer Festival. I’ll be in the Shaw Trust on 2nd July, please do let me know if you are coming along. I’ve been shopping at Shaw Trust this week and I’ll blog my finds tomorrow … vintage prints and bold colours, bargains galore!

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My plan for the event is to start by sharing my thoughts on why I think 2nd hand clothes have such an important place in ethical fashion and clear conscience dressing. I’ll also be talking about what I look out for when searching the rails of a charity shop before we all have a rummage together, find some pieces and share some upcycling ideas.

Do you have any questions ….. ? If you’re interested in 2nd hand shopping but feel a bit overwhelmed by the prospect of rummaging the rails or if you have any particular questions, do let me know in advance of the event so that I can tailor the session to the people coming.  Contact me on Facebook or email or if you see me in the street, stop for a chat.

Upcycling to come ..

Do do you remember those items from Save the Children? I’ve had a lovely week of sewing and now have a new tie front shirt and have almost finished my upcycle of the gold skirt. I’ll blog the finished outfit this week.

 

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I’m planning to try the Dr Noki treatment on the blue t-shirt this week also.

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#1134 sewing club

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On Friday evening we launched the #1134SewingClub. As our tribute to the garment factory workers killed in the collapse at Rana Plaza in 2013, we’re pledging to clock up 1,134 hours of sewing between us before the next anniversary of the Bangladesh disaster on 24th April 2017. We’re already going great guns, we may even clock up the extra 2,500 for those additional people injured that day in 2013.

You can join or follow our Facebook group, #1134SewingClub where there is a write up of our launch meeting by Sylwia Korsak. We’re going to be posting on social media during the meetings and the group are posting their sewing experiences in between meetings on Facebook. Please feel welcome to be part of the group online even if you can’t come to the meetings.

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body shape: me

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With the vision of fashion ideal in my mind and years of insecurity, I am fighting the desire to photoshop these photos even as I write this but who would I be kidding, only myself.  The rest of the world see this, the reality. This is an exercise in accepting and loving the way I look, being happy with my body. To be of value, it needs to be a good honest look as others see me.

A couple of tips I have discovered in doing this;

  • take photos as well as looking in the mirror, I am noticing things in these photos I had not appreciated in the mirror. It may also be a good idea to discuss with a trusted friend.
  • tuck your top in your leggings so you can really see where your waist is. I did this first with the top pulled down and realise now that I couldn’t really see my shape properly.

This is not easy but it’s strangely liberating. You must start with the positives. I can’t bring myself to say “I have a good x” because I’m far too far down the road of body insecurity to be so boldly positive. So I’ve come up with a phrase I will use rather like a mantra ..

“I am happy about my”

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It’s important to use the word “my” because it really feels like I am taking ownership of my body parts in a way that I haven’t before. I think it’s a good start in accepting my shape the way it is. And I have deliberately repeated “my” alongside each statement, owning each body part.

I am happy about ..

  1. my shoulders and hips, they are balanced
  2. my waist, it is defined from the front
  3. my hips and bust, they curve in the right places
  4. my bust, is shapely but not too big and in a good bra they are in the right place
  5. my ankles, they are slimmer than my calves
  6. my thighs, they are fairly toned
  7. my bum, it needs a bit of firming but size ok
  8. my wrists and lower arms, they are slender-ish

My side profile is where it all goes wrong for me, my tummy was never toned before I had children so it’s my most problematic area when it comes to clothes.I  am deliberately going to list 1 less negative than positive. My mantra for these areas is

“I accept it is part of my lovely body but I want to draw attention away from my ..”

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I accept it is part of my lovely body but I want to draw attention away from ..

  1. my tummy, it is almost the size of my bust!
  2. my short legs, they are the same size as my upper body (this is a baffling discovery, how had I not noticed that?!)
  3. my sloping shoulders
  4. my broad, rounded back
  5. my 40 something upper arms
  6. my short-ish neck
  7. my small but not dainty feet

It’s all getting very yoga so let’s bring back the fashion.

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I have a confession to make, I have referred back to 2002 Trinny & Susannah in preparing this post and looking at styles. I must share a quote from the book;

“We regard ‘fashion’ as a pretty frivolous affair, and the higher it gets, the more absurd it becomes. Yet when it comes to clothes it turns into something deadly serious.”

So, to the important bit for my next wardrobe post ….. clothes and styles that suit me and the ones I should avoid. I’m also planning a post on my ultimate capsule summer wardrobe. This area of body shape and styles that suit has ended up more complex than I had imagined which is why I decided to split it into a few shorter posts (see, I’m getting the hang of it!). In the meantime, I’ve launched my #1134 Sewing Club (posting soon) and I’m itching to do some sewing. So I want to devote a whole week (at least!) to sewing and upcycling. When and in what order I will post, I am learning not to promise myself but that’s the broad plan for the coming few weeks.

fashion: we are all different shapes

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Before looking at your own shape, it’s worth thinking about society’s ideal. Now, I’m not advocating that we should be striving to be something we are not, I despise the fashion industry’s idealisation of a figure that most of us don’t have. But the fact of the matter is that the reason the fashion industry uses that body type is that it wears clothes well and the image sells. In part we are trying to create the illusion with clever dressing that we have that body shape. In reality, we are all different shapes, we have some areas that wear clothes well and some that don’t. By imagining what shape wears clothes well, we can understand the tricks we need for the illusion, the styles that draw the attention towards your good bits and away from your not-so-good bits. We do ALL have good bits, even if we chose to focus on the bad, so this is an exercise in finding and celebrating your assets as well as being honest with yourself about the parts of your body that aren’t so great.

I’ve spent most of my adult life yo-yo dieting and exercising, trying to achieve my ideal figure. I sometimes wonder if the reason I wasn’t drawn into the fashion industry before was because I never felt I looked right. But actually, the fashion figure I was striving for was unachievable because no amount of exercise is going to make my legs longer or my shoulders more square. The only time I genuinely haven’t worried about my figure was when I was pregnant and as I see my children grow, I realise how very different we all are and how ridiculous the fashion industry is to suggest that we fall into a few size categories.

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Ready to wear clothing was introduced in the 1930s but even then manufacturers each had their own arbitrary sizing system and clothes often didn’t fit well, requiring alteration. Sizes were based on inaccurate body data or no data at all! And it was found that garments of widely differing dimensions were labelled the same size! We haven’t learnt much have we?! Some bright spark thought, lets solve this by just using models so thin, it won’t matter! Sizing of women’s clothes continues it’s rocky road to this day but it’s a problem that can’t be solved because the real issue is that every single one of us is a different shape. What bespoke tailoring and dressmaking did was to work with a woman’s best assets and her own individual shape. As the fashion industry has developed, styles and fabrics have become more comfortable and more varied. Clothes should be comfortable but with increasing choice, it’s easier to decide what to wear based on what it feels like than what it looks like.

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So looking at the “fashion shape”, it’s all about balance of proportions;  shoulders and hips are balanced, legs are longer than the upper body, narrow ankles move into slim calves then toned thighs and the waist is defined between curvaceous hips and bust. A long slender neck accompanies dainty feet and wrists. From the side, there’s a cheeky round bottom and a lovely oval tummy, arms are toned and back is straight.

OK so back to reality for my next post when I will analyse my shape against this vision and pick out some styles that suit and some that I’m going to avoid.

restyling my wardrobe: trying on

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Trying on is actually stage 3 of my Restyle Guide but I had an inkling I may have to do two trying on sessions and I wanted to grab my friend, Katy when she had her day off so I skipped stage 2 and I’m going to come back to my “Understand your body shape” for my next post. Katy is my good friend and Wardrobe Sorting partner, she has a good eye for fashion and I trust her judgement, I know she’ll be honest. Wearing my most flattering undies and bra, I tried on all the items on my rail and in the piles I had identified as unworn or worn very little last summer. I had dug out some shoes that had not seem daylight for a while, especially the heals!

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There were a few things that just weren’t right and went in the black bag but mostly they fell into 2 categories;

  1. Things that needed altering in some way, either because they were too big or too small or just out of date.
  2. Things that I’d forgotten about in the haste of daily life.

I also had a few items that I wasn’t wearing because I didn’t have a matching piece to make up an outfit.

Re-styled and Re-loved

I rediscovered some items I hadn’t worn for ages. We had a play with shoes, belts, jackets and jewelry and found some new outfit combinations. Not sure I’ll ever wear the candy-striped 70s dress but I can’t bring myself to change it, perhaps I will glide around the garden in it with a G&T!! I have been posting some #reloved items on social media this week.

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Upcycling

I have a rail of upcycling ranging from a quick half-hour alterations to longer sewing projects. I’ve realised I have lots of tops but fewer skirts or trousers other than jeans or leggings to make up outfits. When I’ve done my body shape analysis, I will crack on with some upcycling projects to fill the gaps in my wardrobe.

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An exhausting day, but a worthwhile start. I still feel that my wardrobe is a bit random and I have that moment in the morning when I stare at my clothes and think I have nothing to wear. I can see plenty of items of clothing but with the time pressure of the morning routine, the weird weather and a feeling of wanting to wear something different for the new season, it takes a while to feel inspired. So I am going to do another session and focus on putting outfit combinations together. Looking at the photographs there are definitely things in my wardrobe more flattering to my shape than others so I will do my body shape analysis before I try on again.

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Marie Kondo has opened up the idea that using ALL of your wardrobe is also about how you store your clothes.  When I’ve read a bit more, I’m going to rearrange my wardrobe into categories by occasion so that I have all my daytime outfits in one place for easy selection in the mornings!  One simple reason I wasn’t wearing my clothes was that they were waiting to be ironed so that’s also on my “to do” list! I’m also keeping a “wardrobe gaps” diary for a couple of weeks and when I’m struggling to find an item, I’ll note it down for my shopping or upcycling list.

There are no short cuts to this, but a few days in and already I’m feeling brighter, less cluttered and I’ve worn some clothes that I haven’t worn for ages. I’m looking forward to some upcycling projects and finding some new outfit combinations. And the best bit is, I haven’t spent a penny yet! And I feel that when I do shop, I will be in a position to make wise choices and spend more per item because I will know that I need them.

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restyling my wardrobe: edit

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When my cousin, Bridget saw my wardrobe sorting on Facebook, she recommended “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying” by Marie Kondo. I’m only a few pages in but it gave me a couple of things to keep in mind for the first stage of my restyle

  • It reinforced my belief that you should have a relationship with your clothes; Kondo asks “Does it spark joy?”.
  • Kondo also says that you should “tidy once and properly”, taking everything out of the cupboard before you start to discard and sort, “tidying a little a day and you’ll be tidying forever”.

At the beginning of each season, I put away the clothes I won’t wear for the coming season into an old suitcase. In fact, Kondo says you shouldn’t do this but I like it, it feels like I have new clothes to wear each season and it forces me to review my wardrobe on a regular basis. Some items are trans-seasonal so they never get put away but I can’t see the sense in cluttering up the space I have with big chunky knitwear all summer or shorts in the winter!

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On Monday, I took everything out of my drawers and wardrobe and took my summer clothes out of my suitcase. I put my winter clothes away, saying goodbye to the rain and the cold! Then I put summer favourites in the drawers or wardrobe (or ironing pile!) Then what clothes were left, I grouped like items together, into piles or onto my rail. These were things I hadn’t worn much last summer or even at all, I had some that I was hanging onto despite not having worn for years. I forced myself to do this systematically, fighting the urge to go more quickly, thinking there shouldn’t be any items I don’t wear .. seems obvious but the danger of my suitcase is that I put things into it that I can’t make a decision about, taking up space with things I am not wearing.

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I find it hard to discard clothes, it feels ruthless and I’m attached to my clothes, but the reality is if I’m not wearing them, there is a reason why. I tried to focus on a step at a time … “I’m just hanging them on a rail for now, I’m not getting rid of them. I’m not even asking myself if they spark joy or why I didn’t wear them. Just, did I wear this last summer? Yes or No? Wardrobe or rail”.

I did manage to bravely select a few items for the black bag  .. though it is still sitting dangerously in the corner of the bedroom, I have been know to revisit my black bag and things creep back into the wardrobe! I’m planning to check out some swapping events so I’m going to keep a few things for that, somehow feels better than giving away.

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I tried to take my own advice and be ruthless about the quality of items. Scruffy, damaged … they might spark happy memories but not joy. I do allow myself a memories box in the loft for really special items such as the shirt I wore almost everyday when I was travelling. That shirt was with me for one of the most important journeys of my life, I can’t discard it, it would be like throwing away a friend!

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I don’t really have multiples of similar items because I don’t shop on the high street, my problem is that my wardrobe is a bit random. I buy clothes second hand or I’ve inherited them and I make decisions based on what I like rather than what I need. I’m pleased to say, I only had a couple of items I hadn’t worn at all, mainly because on the odd occasion I do buy new, I make sure I can return if I get items home and change my mind.

Ready for the trying-on stage ….

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